A few days ago, I got an email from Google saying that my Tee Tweets business profile would be taken down because I haven't logged into it in a while. This came shortly before the news that Google will start deleting old accounts.
I tried to log in and keep the profile alive, but the Google account tied to this business profile has SMS-based 2FA enabled.
Since I don't have access to the phone number that's tied to the account, I can't log into the Google account—and likely never will, unless there's some way to assign that specific phone number to myself again.
Google support is nonexistent, so this business will now be removed from Google, simply because I can't log into my account, as Google demands.
This got me thinking about all my other recent internet experiences and how poor they've been.
It's modern day, and there's still no easy way to share photos from the trip without a sneaky third party. If you have Google Photos, you can create shared albums with others, but guess what—they need a Google account too.
So you're forced to have a Google account, and so is everyone else that you want to share photos with. This means you're subject to all of Google's tracking, data harvesting, facial recognition, and every other Big Brother tactic that Google comes with.
You can also create shared albums on Apple Photos, but with Apple, the vendor lock-in problem is even worse, because it comes with multiple costs. First, you need to have an iPhone itself. Then, you need an iCloud account (which is equivalent to a Google account). Then, you need to pay for the storage to actually house those photos, because, be real—the free 5GB simply ain't cutting it.
All of this just because you want to share photos with friends and family.
In my case, I have a Synology NAS at home, which means I can use Synology Photos. Synology Photos is a Google Photos clone with almost the same functionality, but none of the sneakiness from Google.
My photos aren't being used to train AI and facial recognition systems, sent to data brokers or government agencies, or stored on sketchy servers around the world.
Still, the vast majority of people don't have the resources to buy and manage their own servers. I put in the time because I know the importance of this, but it doesn't mean I enjoy it or wish it was this way.
I'd much rather have the convenience of the 99%. It'd be great to one-click share my trip photos with friends and family without needing to worry about where the photos will end up or what will be done with them without needing to buy and manage my own server.
Something I confirmed during my extended trip is that having an iPhone is a very US thing. The iPhone and its proprietary iMessage dominate the US market. But outside of the US, people have all sorts of phones, and they communicate through other platforms like WhatsApp, Telegram, Signal, and Facebook Messenger.
Still, think about all the places where you can be reached:
Building platforms that don't talk to each other has resulted in new software like Beeper and Texts, which aggregate all your chats into a single application.
I was an early user of Beeper, and I hated it. Not because the experience of the application itself was poor, but because it made me realize how broken the internet is.
Why do we need to be reached in all these different places? And if we do need to/want to be reached everywhere, why can't the platforms talk to each other?
Why are we building platforms instead of protocols?
Because a mere handful of influential people decided to lock us into their platform, now we need more software on top of existing software to solve a problem that could've been prevented in the first place? Doesn't make sense to me.
New place means needing directions. Unfortunately, you're bound to Google Maps or Apple Maps.
You could use an open source alternative like OpenStreetMap, but you're not gonna get the same experience compared to the two tech giants.
To use Apple Maps, you need an iPhone once again. You can use Google Maps without a Google account, but this means you're still subjected to all of their invasive tracking practices, even when you don't have your location turned on.
An old childhood friend will send me funny tweets very often. To open the tweets, I need to copy the link, remove the unique tracking parameters in the URL, and then paste the URL into my browser.
Twitter's not as bad as Instagram, because you can at least view the tweet in a browser without needing an account.
But Instagram/Facebook? Terrible.
During this recent trip, my friend wanted to send me travel stuff she saw on Instagram. Since I don't have a personal Instagram account, she'd text me the link on Signal. Then, I'd need to:
Same for TikTok.
Look at how much harder it is to simply view something on these platform.
If you click the shared link and you're not subjecting yourself to all the privacy invasions of having the native mobile app installed on your phone, the link will open your browser. Which—wait a second—demands that you log in or sign up to view the post.
Why do you need to subject yourself to all of that just to view a 10-second travel tip?
What's more is that all these platforms—Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, YouTube, Snapchat—all have their own proprietary formats and way of doing things.
They're not asking you to do things a certain way, they're forcing you to do it.
You'll often find the same content on these platforms, just repurposed and shared a different way.
Facebook has its own dimensions, formats, and limits. So does Instagram. Twitter, too. TikTok. Every single one of these platforms don't want you talking to the other one.
Play by their rules, or don't play at all.
Think about how much better—and easier—it would be if you could join your preferred type of social network and interact with people on the others.
For example: you could join a text-based network like Twitter. Your friend, who loves photos, joins an Instagram-like network. You each experience what you want on the frontend side of things, but on the backend, you're actually on the same distributed network, so you can interact with each other.
This is actually possible on the Fediverse, using Mastodon and PixelFed.
That was the whole point of social media in the first place, wasn't it? To interact with each other?
It's a crazy thought, right? Social media... but actually social?
It feels silly to have to write this in the first place. No one should be longing for a social version of social media.
Traveling means renting hotel rooms. To rent a hotel room, I need to create an account agree to their terms and conditions. Mind you—these are all boutique hotels, so every hotel is different. They all have different systems, processes, terms, conditions, privacy policies, and everything else.
I'm actually glad to see variety in hotels. After all, a duopoly of Marriott and Hilton is not something that benefits any of us as consumers.
Still, I can't help but think how much better it would be—both from a UX and privacy perspective—if I didn't have to increase my digital footprint by filling out information multiple times and agreeing to endless (and varying) terms and conditions.
Caption: An art exhibit that showcases platforms' endless terms and conditions and privacy policies that users agree to.
This data silo problem will hopefully be solved by Solid, a project led by Tim Berners-Lee in conjunction with MIT.
What if there was a way for me to own all of my data, and let hotels access whatever they needed, whenever they needed? Then, when it's no longer needed, revoke it instantly.
During the trip, there were many open Wi-Fi hotspots, but they all require you to give up something in exchange. You can sign in and tie this hotspot with your Google account, Facebook account, Twitter account, or LinkedIn account.
Or, you can go the email route, but then they ask you for your name, date of birth, who you're traveling with, and one or two other questions that increase the barrier to the access point.
You can provide fake information, but many of these pages have now started to verify fake email addresses. And even if you do provide fake information, it's not like you're anonymous anyways.
After all, you're literally connecting to a hotspot, which means that—unless you're on a reputable VPN—all your browsing traffic, messages, and internet connections are being exposed to the internet service provider (ISP) anyways.
This article originally appeared on Rising Tide, Hiram's build-in-public blog.
it's refreshing to see these topics articulated so clearly. Keep up the great work in bringing these conversations to the forefront!
Appreciate that, Jose. Wish I didn't have to in the first place 😅
It sounds like you are a dwebber. Or if not yet, about to become one.
Anyway I think this is a problem of incentives and capitalism. The faangs are incentivized to make things easy as pie as long as you agree they can collect data from your behavior and do whatever they want with it. This you know.
The alternative is that we build software that doesn't do this. Many teams trying but the economics of it are hard as you said, it requires users pay (with money) for things they aren't used to paying for.
Yep, been into decentralization since I first stumbled upon it some ~7 years ago. It's nice to see a push for that again in recent years, and I think we'll continue to see it as an increasing number of things become enshittified.
See:
I think a lot about this TED Talk by Jaron Lanier, and I wish everyone would watch it.
! Yeah familiar with Lanier and have read his book recently “Who owns the future”.
I’m not sold on his ideas though as they seem very free market, hyper-capitalist which I feel is how we got into this mess.
However I do think protocols built for “self-certifying” data (the term Jay Graber from Bluesky uses) plus actually paying ppl for the value they create online would be wildly helpful.
Given you are familiar with this space, I’m very curious what you think of the state of the current works in progress to address this.
Personally I don’t think it will be Solid just bc I don’t see the community rallying around Tim (no fault of his) and the politics seem very challenging. I think it would require an independent dev like a Moxie who ppl rally around and just builds the damn thing.
What do you think is needed?
Well, it's failed legislation, first and foremost. People don't realize they care about these liberties, until they're gone and necessary, and by then it's too late.
But we're talking collective will here, right? That's what it is. Collective will, that leads to legislation, that betters things for all of us. I'm not super bullish on collective will (we saw how that went with the pandemic), but I'm not pessimistic about it either.
Someone asked me something similar 3 months ago, and here's what I said:
Sometimes you gotta (knowingly) be a little crazy, a little delusional, juuust enough to keep going… otherwise, if it feels like a lost cause, then there’s no motivation.
As I got older, I was like damn… Some people work so hard to make things worse, I gotta work at least as hard to combat it lol
Love the breakdown on each subject. Do you think there will be an effective solution to some of the barriers that were created on the internet?
It's not a one-size-fits-all type of solution, but at its core, these things happen because of legislative failures.
If there are no checks in place, of course companies are gonna continue to push the boundaries.
Those companies set the rules. They donate to legislators, who solidify whatever the donors want. Rinse and repeat.
Yup. Tech giants
Other than Solid, the effort to let users own their data is in the form of Self-sovereign Identity (SSI), which is led by W3C. Unlike Solid, this effort is focused on credentials / identity.
SSI will allow users to store their credentials, e.g., driving license, passport, college certificates, issued to them in any* wallet, and not vendor-locked wallets.
Part of the effort is to allow users to proof the value of a data in their credential without the need to expose that data. For example, it is possible to proof that I am over 18 without the need to show my birthdate.
Pilot implementations are already underway in EU, governed by EBSI.
There are many others trying to do this besides Solis and SSI ppl! Much of the dweb/web3 space (not the crypto people) are working towards this in a way that doesn't require gov't intervention.
Hey Hiram, I feel your pain. It's a common pain. But we're here and now and we need to face it the best way!
How do we face it the best way? What do your tips and approaches look like?
Man, I f****** hated the need of having my accounts open in all my devices. Few months ago decided to uninstall all social media apps from my phone. One of the best decisions of my life.
Limiting social is one of the best things you can do for yourself.
Ditched Facebook in 2016. Instagram in 2018. Went back to it for a few weeks in 2020, then left it again. Started using Twitter in 2021, then left it in 2023. Same thing with Reddit.
I always thought it was gonna be harder than it actually was.
I'm still on Mastodon and Lemmy, but I spend way less time. I've also found that the interactions are far more meaningful and worthwhile compared to FB/IG/Twitter.
I wrote a little more about this here.